It has been a year and over a thousand video calls on countless platforms. When I am not jumping in and out of calls – mostly professional, I am either attending a webinar or participating in one. Or I am in my online French lessons. Whenever a video call involves more than four – OK, let’s say, five persons, you are sure to encounter the token jerk (TJ). They pervade meetings and they are skilled at derailing the agenda and talking as the precious minutes trickle away. A TJ will never chair the meeting. He (yes, 99% of the time it’s a man) will skulk about in the shadows waiting…